Why I Ask You to Wait 6-8 Months After a Loss

Losing someone you love is a soul-shaking experience.
In the first months after a passing, your entire being — your heart, your body, your spirit — is in deep grief. You’re doing the impossible work of learning how to breathe in a world that has changed forever.

During this early period, your energy field is filled with sorrow, shock, and emotional overwhelm. And while this is normal, expected, and completely human, it creates a very important dynamic:
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The grief becomes so heavy that it fills the energy of your heart, making it harder to receive Spirit clearly.

Not because your loved one isn’t close…
Not because they aren’t trying to reach you…
But because your heart is in survival mode, and survival mode makes it difficult to receive the subtle, loving messages Spirit brings through.

This is why a reading too soon can feel:

• confusing
• muted
• emotionally overwhelming
• or not as validating as you hoped

It’s not a lack of connection.
It’s your tender heart doing its best to protect you.

When you give yourself time — about eight months — something beautiful happens:

• the shock begins to soften
• your nervous system settles
• the waves of grief become more breathable
• your heart has more room
• your field opens
• you can receive Spirit with more clarity and comfort

Your loved one is still with you.
Their love hasn’t gone anywhere.
But you deserve a reading that feels healing — not heavy.

You deserve to receive messages when your heart is open enough to be comforted by them, rather than overwhelmed by the grief surrounding them.

Waiting these months ensures that when we connect, the experience is:

• clearer
• deeper
• gentler
• more validating
• and profoundly healing

​Thank you for honoring this sacred timing.

​Your heart deserves tenderness as it heals… and your loved one will be ready when you are ready. 🤍